Should I Reconcile? You are older and wiser now, with an experience or two, and a decision to make.

Your desire to reconcile is often a desire to live the dream. To revive your passions and the hopes you lived in the beginning. To return to 'Go' and start over with a new role of the dice.

Purhaps reconciliation is not your own desire, but forced upon you like a load of dirty laundry. Forced upon you by silent and sullen children. Forced upon you by a repentant spouse, full of promises and needs greater than your own. Forced upon you by family, religion, and tradition of the day.

Should I reconcile? Should I accept the hurt, the pain, and call it a day? Can I face the unknown, or is there more comfort in this familiar but battered arena? Yes, you are older and wiser now, with a decision to make.

How to Decide

Take a blank piece of paper, any paper, and if you are inclined you can create a spreadsheet or flow chart, it matters not the medium. Across the top draw a single line, and down the centre draw another line. At the top on one side write the word STAY. The other side gets MOVE ON.

There is no secret or trick to this; simply write down every reason or excuse for saving or ending your marriage. This writer remembers being asked to make a list of all the possible uses for the lowly paper clip. Writing down one use leads to another and another, the list reached 50 ideas within two minuets. At another table their list numbered 110. The point my friend is to just jot down, pro and con. Your list might take a life of its own, growing hour by hour, day by day.

At least three things will happen.
- You will come to a decision.
- You will have clearer understanding of the issues.
- You have the beginings of a course of action

Staying means taking action and making one more commitment to your marriage. That commitment is not yours alone. You both have issues to resolve. It is not prudent to take the easy road by ducking the issues. Face them head on. Pay the price in the currency of hard work and honest communication, without it couples often fall back into old habits. A recommendable course of action is joint marriage counselling, and in many cases joint financial counselling.

Moving on means acceptance, and closes the option of going back into the marriage. While it may be sad, it also frees you to look to your future without the complications of all the "what if's". Moving on can be like passing Go and collecting your $200, knowing the next trip around the block might be better than the last.

What if I told you that I could help you accelerate that time between wanting and actually having what you want? You truly can increase that gap to finally manifest what you desire, however few people understand that they can.

What would you really like to manifest at this present point? Perhaps you have a desire to apply the law of attraction to manifest more money. Since money is the middle man between having what we desire it’s only natural that most people will want to increase their money flow fast.

The fist step you would take is to have a very clear idea of what it is you desire to have. How much money do you want to manifest? Do you truly believe that you can manifest money fast? These are the two questions you must first ask yourself.

Once you are clear about what you want to manifest you should then employ the law of attraction by bringing yourself into alignment with what you want.

The secret to manifesting faster is to active the law of attraction with increased power and focus. With out the power of the energy behind your intention you will set of a very weak wish to the universe.

Thank of a bucket beneath a dripping tap. Each drop into the bucket will eventually fill the bucket however if you open up the tap the flow will be stronger, steady and powerful.

It would not take very long to manifest what you want. I often say that it is not enough to know about the law of attraction but it is also important to learn how to maximize it to manifest what you want faster.

Getting what you want does not require that you work harder or that you run yourself into the grave chasing what you want. How much easier it is to actually be able to manifest what you really want and do so very fast.

Imagine living a life of abundance where you can manifest all that you ever thought possible in a shorter period of time. You can and you will.

Are you applying the law of attraction correctly? If you are like most people you are mostly likely quite frustrated. You want to manifest changes faster. You want to manifest money faster. You want to manifest new friends but for all your hard efforts something seems to me missing.

You may be think, If I can have do or be anything I want, then why can`t I see the results? This is a common frustration with most people who are new to the law of attraction.

The pain of failing again and again at applying the law of attraction can cause anyone to give up. Many years ago when I learned of the law of attraction I went through the very same frustration until I learned what is at the heart of the secret to manifesting greater results.

The secret to manifesting anything you want using the law of attraction is the energy behind your intention and your thoughts. Energy is abundant in the universe. You are constantly being influenced by various qualities of energy all the time.

There is a particular quality of energy of your thoughts. There is also a particular quality of energy in your environment. Every degree of energy affects your ability to manifest differently.

Although most people who learn of the law of attraction think exclusively of their thoughts, they are unaware of the tenor of energy within their though forms.

The more sensitive you become to the tenor of energy within you, as well as your environment the easier it become to align yourself with the energy of what you want to manifest in your life.

If the energy within you is out of alignment with where you want to be then you simply cannot manifest what you truly desire.

The law of attraction is an art that must be understood at its very core. Learn to become still and ask yourself, How am I feeling at this moment? Although you may be thinking of what you want you may be feeling very much out of alignment with what you truly desire to manifest.

As you become aware of the tone of your personal energy you can slowly learn to increase your energy to become a magnet for what you when. When you do the law of attraction becomes an incredible tool to manifest what you truly desire.

To affirm means to declare what is already present. It is the same with creating and using affirmations to attract or to transform the things which we desire.

When you create an affirmation you are declaring to yourself and the universe that the desire is already created. As you continue to repeat these affirmations you are also holding your thoughts clearing with intense focus on the creation that you have made.

Affirmations serve many purposes when trying to manifest the things you want. Applying the law of attraction can be hard when you try diligently to maintain positive uplifting thoughts. It’s almost impossible to monitor your thoughts twenty four hours a day but when you create clear affirmations with details they become a great tool in controlling your thoughts and in turn influencing the law of attraction in your favor.

Here are three ways to use affirmations with your law of attraction practice to get great results.

1. The first step to using the affirmations is to become very clear about what you want. In order to become clear you would need to write out all the details that you would like to see and experience in the thing that you want. The clearer you are about your intentions the more power you give to your affirmations.

2. Write a clear positive affirmation in the first person stating your desire as if it is already complete. Never make statements such as, “ I wish I could be… or someday I can have or I don’t want to do…”

These three statements are the most ineffective statements when creating your affirmations. The affirmation must be created with power and faith in order to fully shift the law of attraction in your favor. You must absolutely omit any words that tie you to the thing which you do not want. If you want to stop thinking in a negative way, it is best to state, “ I now think and feel in the most positive way. I thoughts are happy and positive every moment of the day.”

3. Move into the affirmation with feeling. Feeling adds the power to your desires. Feelings generate an internal energy that allows your whole being to absorb your statement.

Many people find it a bit hard to really create success with their affirmations and that is as a result of stuck emotional energetic patterns that are difficult to change. There are many incredible techniques that can shift those affirmations quite deeply that they make the attraction process even easier and more effective without the mindless repetition.
How deeply are you willing to go to see the changes that you know are possible to have?

Would like to learn how to speed up the attraction process? Everyone would love to learn how to attract their desires a lot faster. First you must learn to understand the universal laws and how they work. Its’ a fact of life that our very existence depends on our understanding of how the universe works. Lack of understand leads to frustration.

The law of attraction is one step of many laws. There are many secrets to allowing the law of attraction to work at its optimal level to bring us our desire.

Here are three things every should master when applying the law of attraction.

1) Focus – How much focus are you giving to your desire. You must learn the correct way to focus your thoughts even when you are bombarded by your everyday worries. The more focus you give to your creating the more energy is directed to it. Focus does not mean worry. As you may know when you worry you active the law of attraction to give you more circumstances that bring greater worry.

2)Gratitude – Be grateful for where you are. Even when your life seems difficult and frustrating you can begin to see all the good that you presently have. You cannot transcend a situation that you resist. The moment you begin to look at your present condition with acceptance and gratitude you are better able to shift and make changes.

3)Embrace the New – Find as many things as you can which stimulate you. New activities bring you and your own energy to wider and greater possibilities. When you move through your everyday activities you are moving through the same old way of thinking. Have you ever noticed that entering your work place can immediately get you to think in a particular way?

As you shift your awareness to what is new and joyful you expand. Your breathing changes your mind changes and your attraction moves into a higher gear. The results then are faster and more explosive.

The mind and body are like a battery, the more you feed it higher thoughts and feeling the stronger and more powerful it will be. Are you happy with the way your life is presently going? What are you willing to do to fully understand the law of attraction?

Some of the things people most desire to have, or to improve in their life are money, a loving relationship, a successful job, great health, nice house, and a new car. Most people just dream about these things, but never actually obtain them. What people don’t realize is that all of these things can be theirs through the power of manifestation

Manifesting ones desires is a science. There are laws that govern the process of materializing wishes seemingly out of nothing. Once these laws are complied with, anyone can make their dreams a reality. This may seem very unbelievable to some, but the truth is it’s very real.

The Law of Abundance- Everything you desire begins in your mind and it is the mind that brings these thoughts to life. Your outer state of being is the manifestation of your thought. Therefore, to obtain the things you desire, you have to first set your mind to it. Vital self-empowerment skills will help you mentally transform a thought into a material manifestation. You will learn how to change your expectations in order to change your life. We live in a Universe of abundance, although most others appear to view it as a Universe of scarcity. Thoughts such as others are more talented, more deserving, and more gifted than you only hinder you from living abundantly. If you are possess these same thoughts, don’t worry, there is hope for you! You can learn skills to activate self-actualizing power through these Laws to live with wealth, financial freedom, and success.

Abundance does not mean mere accumulation of material wealth. Happiness, peace of mind, harmony, optimal health, being in loving relationships, and having a strong sense of your True Self are also part of this universal abundance. This abundance comes into a person's life only when he facilitates its free flow from him and through him. There are also other ways to increase abundance in your life. Add time to your day, simplify, or make a difference in the world. For example, volunteer work and meditation are good ways to increase abundance. Be more open-minded and open to new possibilities. Try to only surround yourself with positive influences such as people and things.

Take control of your thoughts and start manifesting your desires today!

The words quick and easy don`t seem believable when it comes to manifesting money. Most everyone has the mindset that if you want money it has to come with hard work.

It may just be true that hard works is necessary however it all depends on what sort of hard work you need to engage in to manifest money quickly and easily.

The whole concept of manifesting requires a deep understanding of not only your relation to your physical reality but also to yourself and your alignment with what you want. You know when you are in alignment with something by the way you feel when you focus upon it. If you feel joyful then you have opened yourself up to the flow of the creative force to pour great magnetism into you.

Attracting money is the same. Everyone who has been successful in manifesting great wealth will repeat this one mantra, Do what you love and money will come. This is the first way.

There is a deeper scientific reason for this which goes just beyond the share joy of loving what you do. Although that`s important there is another reason. When you are enjoying what you do you move into a divine flow that empowers your intention.

The second way to attracting money quickly is to remove fear from the equation of your desire and move into boldness. Too often people are unsure of what they want. When you are certain of your desires your mental image will also be clear and easier to manifest.

The third step is the ability to increase magnetism of your desire so that what you want comes to you. This is the true essence of manifesting. The more magnetic you can be the more charge there is between you and what you desire.


The secret to manifesting are in the right techniques. Manifesting is all about technique. You may know the steps but not be aware of just how to apply the steps to increase your magnetism of money.

Do you enjoy teaching? Do you like to sit with your child and help them learn to read. Do you enjoy putting puzzles together or going on trips to discover something new?

For parents who believe that home schooling is a valid way to educate your children, you may be able to become a teacher. This will allow you achieve your desire to be a teacher but also be responsible for your child’s education.

As a home schooling parent you have the flexibility to teach the child in alternative and different ways. You are not regulate to teaching with the typical and normal set rules and regulations of the typical school system.

Additionally the parent is able to incorporate their own religious and, ethical and moral beliefs into the teaching curriculum. As the parent you can shape the values the child learns at home and not through the typical schools.

You should realize that it is a great responsibility to handle your child’s education. Many parents believe they are not able to teach since they do not have degrees or certificates in teaching. This is not necessarily the case as you can have tutors instruct your child with subjects that you are not comfortable with.